<div class="playbuzz" data-id="29e3ead6-4e59-4d8b-8366-9bc872d21cd8" data-show-share="false" data-show-info="false"></div><a href="https://drpam.co.uk/category.php?category=2&amp;id=73" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114);">Originally posted on Dr Pam Spurr’s blog</a><img src="https://wingman-site.s3.amazonaws.com/75489b029181fef3d77d9060a93df892_image.jpeg">Dr Pam’s podcast Wham Bam It’s Dr Pam is available here:&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.do/eSHsh" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114);">http://bit.do/eSHsh</a>​Find her on Twitter&nbsp;<a href="https://twitter.com/#%21/drpamspurr" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114);">@drpamspurr</a>&nbsp;and at ​<a href="http://www.drpam.co.uk/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114);">www.drpam.co.uk</a>Sign up now with your wingman by downloading the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wingmanapp.com/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(228, 175, 10);">Wingman® app</a>&nbsp;in the App store and Google Play store. Available in the US and UK for IOS and Android devices.

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Originally posted on Dr Pam Spurr’s blog

Dr Pam’s podcast Wham Bam It’s Dr Pam is available here: http://bit.do/eSHsh
​Find her on Twitter @drpamspurr and at ​www.drpam.co.uk
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Quiz: Are You Still Haunted By The Ghost Of Your Ex

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Oasis has been trending on and off since they announced their reunion recently. It reminded me that I had once told a date-coaching client that the person they had started seeing was a ‘definitely maybe’ kind of person. That instantly resonated with them.A ‘definitely maybe’ kind of date isn’t a commitment-phobe as such, but they probably have some personal weaknesses, anxieties or issues when it comes to aspects of dating.Some signs to watch out for include:*You suggest something for your next date but he/she (women do this too) says they need to think about it. And it’s not as if you’re suggesting a weekend break in Paris! It could just be something like bowling or dancing or visiting an exhibition, that may well take them out of their comfort zone.*They say you can meet their friends “sometime soon” but then they never suggest a time and place. Ditto, when you ask if they would like to meet your friends, they say “definitely” but then never seem able to make the time and place you suggest.Again, this might be because they feel uncomfortable mixing different groups together. Rather than the classic commitment-phobe who never has any intention of you mixing with their personal friends.<img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/wingman-parse-storage/3c280bf04801c9a57e48246e918a2891_blog_image_1728385503148_0.webp">*This hesitancy can cut right across your dating. Even when it comes to the first time it looks like you might have sex. They seem to put it off or make excuses. They may just want the timing to be perfect but it can be frustrating if you’re ready.*They’re going home for a family weekend and say things like maybe sometime you can come. Definitely don’t count on it for some time to come!Signs like these can flag up future difficulties if you can’t pin them down. As I’ve said in many of my Wingman columns, only you can decide if you want to see if this “maybe” turns out to “definitely” be your man or woman!Good luck and happy dating, Pam xSign up now with your wingman by downloading the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wingmanapp.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(228, 175, 10); background-color: transparent;">Wingman app</a>&nbsp;in the App store and Google Play store. Available in the US and UK for IOS and Android devices.<img src="https://wingman-site.s3.amazonaws.com/0dac64061aeae2baf25196dce4e3c99a_image.jpeg">Follow Dr Pam on Twitter and Instagram&nbsp;<a href="https://twitter.com/#%21/drpamspurr" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(149, 79, 114); background-color: transparent;">@drpamspurr</a>&nbsp;and at<a href="https://drpam.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="color: blue; background-color: transparent;">&nbsp;drpam.co.uk</a>If there are any little ones in your life, Dr Pam’s first children’s story book is out now:&nbsp;<a href="https://tinyurl.com/36y3xr6n" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(17, 85, 204); background-color: transparent;">http://tinyurl.com/36y3xr6n</a>

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A blog post by Dr Pam Spurr about how to deal with a partner who is undecisive.

Our relationship expert Dr Pam Spurr (On Twitter & Instagram @drpamspurr) shares her advice on how to deal with an undecisive partner.

Are They a "Definitely...Maybe" Kind of Person?

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<img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/wingman-parse-storage/fdc74d91d758f2962826ca600f8357d9_blog_image_1728313264838_0.webp">CEO and Wingman app founder Tina Wilson shares in an article with Daily Mail how social media and technology is changing the dating scene for this new generation and what the implications of prolonged messaging can really mean.Read more: <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-13932377/relationship-expert-dating-trend-carouselling-anxiety-singles.html" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-13932377/relationship-expert-dating-trend-carouselling-anxiety-singles.html</a>

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CEO and Wingman app founder Tina Wilson shares in an article with Daily Mail how social media and technology is changing the dating scene for this new generation and what the implications of prolonged messaging can really mean.

How this new Gen Z dating trend might actually stop them from finding love

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<img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/wingman-parse-storage/b39ae7479cba30797441132115075512_blog_image_1727858962824_0.webp">Relationship expert and matchmaking app founder of Wingman, Tina Wilson shares her thoughts on the "casual dating" trend that's taking the internet by storm and what dating means in today's landscape.Read more at: <a href="https://www.newsweek.com/casual-dating-tiktok-trend-long-distance-origin-1959640" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.newsweek.com/casual-dating-tiktok-trend-long-distance-origin-1959640</a>

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Wingman app founder and CEO of Wingman app, Tina Wilson, talks to Newsweek about the phenomenon of "casual" dating and what that means for the long term relationships.

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